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How to Create a Weathered Wood Gray Finish

Learn how to easily grey wash wood! This weathered gray stain finish works great for how to make wood look old and gray!

Last week on the blog, I shared a rustic DIY desk that Brandon built and finished. The photos I took didn’t quite show off the gray wash stain finish like I wanted, so I am sharing some close up photos today of the finish as well as how we created a weathered wood gray finish.

We tested out a few different combinations to get a more gray washed look.

Ultimately, we decided on using a combination of stain and white washed paint (paint mixed with water) to achieve a more weathered gray stain tone. It’s a great, easy way to distress wood with paint!

How to create a weathered wood gray finish and grey wash wood

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How to Create a Weathered Wood Gray Finish:

Supplies Needed for a DIY Gray Wash Stain:

*A printable version of this tutorial and step by step video are at the bottom of this post!*

1. Stain your wood

Before staining, make sure your wood is properly prepared for finishing. To learn more about how to prepare your wood surface for a weathered wood finish, as well as other weathered wood finish tutorials and how to protect your weathered wood surface, check out Weathered Wood Recipes!

learn more about weathered wood recipes

Then, apply the pre-stain wood conditioner and let dry.

Next, apply one coat of the Dark Walnut stain. Wipe away any excess stain. Allow your stain to fully dry.

See my tutorial on how to stain wood for tips on staining wood!

dark stained wood before grey wash

2. Apply a white wash mixture to the wood

To create a whitewash paint mixture, we mixed about 1 part water to 1 part white paint. We ended up making the mixture a bit thicker with paint and less watery to achieve our desired finish.

Next, apply the white wash paint mixture to the wood in long strokes with a paint brush.

Allow the paint mixture to set for 3-5 seconds, then rub over the white wash paint strokes with a staining rag or lint free rag to smear the paint mixture into the wood. Allow it to fully dry.

See my whitewashing wood tutorial for more details on how to whitewash wood.

using a paint brush to grey wash wood on stained wood desk top
How to create a weathered wood gray finish using a rag to rub in whitewash paint mixture over stain on wood table
How to create a weathered wood gray finish and gray wash stain on a wood desk

3. Distress the wood finish with sandpaper to create a grey wash wood look

Finally, very lightly distress the wood finish with sandpaper until you achieve your desired look!

I prefer to use 80 or 150 grit sandpaper wrapped around a piece if wood and hand sand until I get the look I want. A sanding block may be used too.

And that’s it! Pretty simple! You can also add a top coat of poly or wax if you’d like, we chose not to since we liked the look at this point.

Here is a close up of the wood grain with this rustic, gray, weathered wood finish. I just love how the grain lightly shows through with this grey wash wood stain finish!

close up of weathered wood finish that has has a gray wash wood look
How to create a weathered gray stain look and gray wash wood look on new wood

What do you think of our weathered wood, gray finish? I think it definitely gives off a rustic vibe and it’s perfect for how to make wood look old and gray or how to grey wash wood! It’s definitely one of the easiest ways to distress wood with paint!

If you want to see another example of this finish, check out my easy DIY entryway bench which we applied the same finish to as well!

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How to create a weathered wood gray finish that looks like weathered gray stain and grey wash wood stain

More DIY Weathered Gray Stain Finishes:

If you’re interested in more easy weathered wood finish tutorials with a gray wash stain look, learning how to properly prepare your surface for a weathered wood finish, or learning about top coats and how to protect your finish for the best results, check out Weathered Wood Recipes here!

Weathered Wood Recipes includes easy and budget friendly tutorials on how to create weathered wood finishes like this:

DIY blanket ladder with a weathered grey wash wood stain
close up of weathered gray finish on DIY Blanket Ladder

And this!

Farm Table Makeover with DIY weathered wood gray finish

Click here to learn more about Weathered Wood Recipes!

I’d love to see photos of your project using the weathered wood finish in this tutorial! Feel free to share your DIY grey wash wood finish with me on Instagram @angelamariemade, Facebook, or e-mail pictures to [email protected]!

Also, if you’re interested in more wood finish ideas just using stain, be sure to check out my 10 favorite wood stain colors, 5 favorite grey wood stain colors, and 3 white wood stain options.

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How to create a weathered wood gray finish

How to Create a Weathered Wood Gray Finish

Yield: 1
Prep Time: 10 minutes
Active Time: 30 minutes
Total Time: 40 minutes
Difficulty: Easy

Easy tutorial on how to create a weathered wood gray finish. Make new wood look like old weathered wood or refinish your furniture with this gray wash look!

Materials

Tools

  • Paint Brush

Instructions

  1. Make sure your wood is properly prepared. Then, apply a pre-stain wood conditioner.
  2. Stain your wood with one coat of Minwax Dark Walnut stain. Wipe away any excess stain. Allow it to fully dry.
  3. Apply a white wash mixture to the wood, using one about 1 part water to 1 part white paint. Apply the white wash to the wood in long strokes with a paint brush. Allow the paint mixture to set for 3-5 seconds, then rub
    over the white wash paint strokes with a staining rag to smear the paint mixture into the wood. Allow it to fully dry.
  4. Lightly distress the wood finish with sandpaper until you achieve your desired look!

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Mel

Tuesday 22nd of August 2023

If the wood is already stained for instance a ceiling fan do I need to do anything before adding the watered down paint?

Diane Brown

Monday 31st of October 2022

I like the weathered Grey Finish you've done I want to try it I have stripped my wood would I still need to use the Pre stain Wood Conditioner I would also like to know what kind of sealer you used on your piece

Angela Marie Made

Tuesday 1st of November 2022

I didn't use any sealant on this piece, but if you want to add a sealant I would recommend using a water-based polyurethane!

Lisa

Wednesday 18th of May 2022

Im a little late to the game! I live the look of the table and am looking to do this to some furniture. However, my furniture is already painted! Do you have any suggestions on how to make it look like yours with my pieces. Do I prime it gray or white first? Sand all the old paint off (oh please say no!)

Angela Marie Made

Wednesday 8th of June 2022

Yes, unfortunately you will have to sand all of the paint off first! The stain will not work over painted wood, so you will need to sand all of the paint off before applying the stain and then the white wash.

Christina

Wednesday 19th of January 2022

Hi there!! What if you have a piece of furniture that is already that walnut color? Is there a way to strip the finish so that the whitewash absorbs without having to sand it down to the bare wood?

Angela Marie Made

Sunday 30th of January 2022

If it's just the stain and doesn't have a top coat, you can apply the white wash directly over the walnut stain! If it does have a top coat, the white wash may not absorb properly so you'd have to sand off the top coat which may take off the walnut stain as well. Unfortunately, I don't know of a way to avoid taking both off!

James B

Thursday 30th of December 2021

I used your process when I made a lifting storage bed for my grandson. It came out fantastic! Now using it again for a Toy box for another grandson.

Angela Marie Made

Tuesday 4th of January 2022

Wow, that is so cool!!! You are an awesome grandpa!

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